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Nine signs your anxiety is affecting your dating life negatively

Anxiety and dating are a common combination. You’re excited about meeting that online stranger. But if you have underlying anxiety the process of dating can be exciting but also painful. Anxiety by definition is an emotion characterized by an unpleasant state of inner turmoil. Such turmoil is accompanied by nervous behavior such as pacing back and forth,…

Woman exploring online dating apps similar to online shopping
Dating
How Online Dating Apps are Keeping You Single

Could online dating apps be keeping you single? How is this possible? Don’t most people meet online? It’s not the apps themselves but how you approach online dating that may be the problem. I call it the ‘shoppers mindset’ let me explain what it is, and what you can do instead. THE GOAL OF DATING…

Woman lying in bed with guy wondering are we in a situationship or relationship?
Games Single People Play
Situationship or Relationship? Can One Lead to the Other?

Whether you are in a situationship or relationship may be a matter of timing and progression. Situationships are another term for ‘hanging out’ or when two people who are exploring a ‘thing’. Its considered a casual relationship without a label. Relationships, in contrast, usually start out serious because two people have strong feelings for one another….

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