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the apple never falls far from the tree
Understanding Your Type
The apple never falls far from the tree: Understanding how you love

You’ve heard the phrase, the apple never falls far from the tree but do you know why and how? Who you are in your romantic relationships is complex.  As an ‘apple’ you inherited characteristics from both your parents. You also learned how to behave through imitation and experience. You don’t have control over the tree you…

Don Draper laughing about women chasing men.
Games Single People Play
Why Chasing Men Feels Like Game Playing & How To Find Love In Modern Times

Dating can feel like a game, and some women report feeling like they are stuck in the role of chasing men to gain even a little interest. What used to be a game of cat and mouse, today feels like two people playing chicken. Both the man and woman expect the other to lead the…

Bachelor/Bachelorette Musings | Holidays
Happy Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day! Today is not only a day to celebrate romantic love; it’s a day to celebrate the loved ones in your life and friends. I’m sending you love from my heart to yours. I apologized to you, my loyal follower because I’ve been out of touch and not blogging lately. I haven’t meant to…

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