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The one problem killing your relationship
Communication Skills | Dating | Know your Partner | Knowing Yourself
The one problem killing your relationship

The most common problem that couples report is, ‘poor communication,’  but what does this mean? It’s not often couples have real communication gaps-like one speaks French the other German. The issue is miscommunication; you or your partner doesn’t feel heard and you don’t know how to fix it? What’s killing your relationships isn’t YOU but your COMMUNICATION STYLE!…

get your brain in shape for summer
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy | Knowing Yourself
Get Your Brain In Shape For Summer: 5 steps

It’s hard to believe that summer’s here. You’re suddenly aware of your summer wardrobe and how you look in your bikini or swim trunks. You often think about being in good physical shape but have you ever asked yourself, “What kind of mental shape am I in?”  If you’re a chronic worrier or you often…

Do Opposite Love Styles Attract or attack?
Know your Partner | Knowing Yourself | Love Styles | Relationships
Do Opposite Love Styles ATTRACT or ATTACK?

 I received this great question from one of my followers: “I’m partnered with someone who is my opposite love style. Are we doomed?”  “Do opposite love styles attract or attack?” I want to break this question into two parts:  PART 1: What does it mean to be with your opposite love style?  PART 2: What…

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